How "intimate" are you with your MA club?

[Whathappened]

Apologies for double post.

we chat after training and i have them on facebook, mostly thats about it.

Am i missing out on something here ?

That's what I'm trying to find out. lol. Like some of the responses here, I'm not really into big groups, so I just wanted to know how much after-workout activities I'm missing out on.

Also, Whathappened: what do TCC and BQZ stand for?

Tai Chi Chuan and Ba Qua/Gua Zhang (aka 8 triagram boxing). :pancakebu

[King Sleepless]

Judo - Pretty close. I got out with sensei and the boys to a sushi/bar place to get food and drinks with them on Wednesdays after class. It's a really old tradition they've been doing at the dojo for about 10ish years now. They asked me to go a few months ago.

SAMBO - Very close. Omega, Coffeefan, Mrs. Coffeefan are all very important people to me. Though I only see them once every two months or so, I'd give my left arm for them.

TKD - Very close. I hang out with some of my old co-students/instructors from TKD a lot and still go back once a week to help out with a class or two and teach them the basics of kick boxing.

[zlarin]

I have a few pretty good friends at the dojo. I even turned to one of them when I was in need of a roommate. Turned out to be a pretty shitty roommate.

[kikoolol]

I'll speak to them in class, but not much else. One of them has more randori with me sometimes after class, and that's about it.

I'm a very private and reserved person, so that actually doesn't mean much. I don't exactly have many friends from school either. I perhaps voluntarily stay out of the loop. Always been that way, always will, and I don't suffer from it.

[battlefields]

I am not part of the in crowd at BJJ, more like a periphery student cause I am unable to train every session. This isn't too bad, though, most of the guys are good blokes and I get along well with them, especially the instructor who provided moral support during a difficult time last year.
I understand I am the new guy with minimal technique and grossly overweight (so being under me is painful) plus I don't drink so the chances of having a social life with the guys are diminished, but I don't really care because I am 27, have my own friends, have my own life and have a fiancee. I go to BJJ primarily to train, anything else is an unexpected bonus.
I'd like to get intimate with some of the chicks from my old TKD class, though...

[Holy Moment]

I have a lot of empty sex with the guys at the club, but when they truly try to get to know me I end up pushing them away.

[Ike]

We share everything, from needles to STIs.

[SaintHamish]

We have a close bond. I work with some of my training partners.

I try and masturbate in each ones bathroom at least once.

[Ike]

You joke about that, but I had a friend who has such a compulsion.

He's not my friend any longer.

[aznraven]

I've been lonely lately and been wondering how "intimate" are you with the folks at your MA club?

WC - lunch with the sifu and guys, occasional hanging out at coffee bean joint
TCC - None, went home as soon as it was done, hang around sweaty old people? No way.
BQZ - chats with the friend who brought me to the club
A.Karate - late night drinks with everyone
TKD - none, some friends were in the club.

KK - Beginning to make friends, nothing much, like pretty much everyone I met

H-S-K- Best friends and lifelong friends, we go drinking, eating, clubbing, celebrate, mostly everything together

[Lu Tze]

You joke about that, but I had a friend who has such a compulsion.

He's not my friend any longer.

He wouldn't let you watch, huh?

[battlefields]

You joke about that, but I had a friend who has such a compulsion.

He's not my friend any longer.

We still would be if your bathroom wasn't an en suite.

[SaintHamish]

He wouldn't let you watch, huh?

Ummm, by watching you catch the 'gay'.

[Kovacs]

I get on well with both the guys from my MT and kickboxing class, it's generally mostly chat after class and occasionally a beer with the kickboxing lot, I don't have any of their numbers or anything.

They're all a good bunch and wouldn't mind going out on the piss with any of them.

[SaintHamish]

We still would be if your bathroom wasn't an en suite.

*insert glory hole picture*