It isn't often that I write a serious topic. Usually I just snipe with my sarcastic comments. So I expect a few.
So here is the problem that maybe you can help me with:
HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH YOUR SPOUSE/S.O. AND THIER UNWILLINGNESS TO TAKE THIER PERSONAL SAFETY SERIOUSLY?
Let me describe my wife. The polar opposite of me. The sweetest, kindest, gentlist most optomistic person with the thickest set of rose colored glasses you will ever see. She lives in a world where nothing bad could ever happen to her. And with that mindset she is a sheep. Baaaaa.
I put a big steel security door on. I added more locks. I fixed the motion sensor floodlight out back. I have a pistol with hollowpoints downstairs, and a loaded shotgun upstairs. There are phones in every room.
...but here is the gist of it...I am in the military and have not been home for more than 4 or 5 days at a time for the last 6 months. I have another 6 months of training coming up, and then almost an immediate 15 month deployment. Simply put - I am not there. I powerless.
And she continually refuses to use common sense to protect herself.
She leaves the bedroom door open with a chain on the door so that one of the dogs can sleep on the patio at night (dog prefers it). The bedroom is on the 3rd floor but still...if I can climb up there so can someone else. I have 3 other locks on that fucking door and she doesn't use them. We don't live in the greatest neighborhood and the cops come around quite often. Helicopters are always circling shining the lights. And what does she do? Walks the fucking dogs out back with the door wide open. La dee da~
WTF?
So tonight we got into a fight because I jumped her ass about it. Well...not a fight. She just stopped talking. So I was lecturing a phone. But sonofbitch! Women don't listen to logic, reason, common sense, and certainly don't want to be reminded of thier vulnerability. How the fuck do you get through to them and wake them the fuck up BEFORE ITS TOO LATE?!?!
So here is the problem that maybe you can help me with:
HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH YOUR SPOUSE/S.O. AND THIER UNWILLINGNESS TO TAKE THIER PERSONAL SAFETY SERIOUSLY?
Let me describe my wife. The polar opposite of me. The sweetest, kindest, gentlist most optomistic person with the thickest set of rose colored glasses you will ever see. She lives in a world where nothing bad could ever happen to her. And with that mindset she is a sheep. Baaaaa.
I put a big steel security door on. I added more locks. I fixed the motion sensor floodlight out back. I have a pistol with hollowpoints downstairs, and a loaded shotgun upstairs. There are phones in every room.
...but here is the gist of it...I am in the military and have not been home for more than 4 or 5 days at a time for the last 6 months. I have another 6 months of training coming up, and then almost an immediate 15 month deployment. Simply put - I am not there. I powerless.
And she continually refuses to use common sense to protect herself.
She leaves the bedroom door open with a chain on the door so that one of the dogs can sleep on the patio at night (dog prefers it). The bedroom is on the 3rd floor but still...if I can climb up there so can someone else. I have 3 other locks on that fucking door and she doesn't use them. We don't live in the greatest neighborhood and the cops come around quite often. Helicopters are always circling shining the lights. And what does she do? Walks the fucking dogs out back with the door wide open. La dee da~
WTF?
So tonight we got into a fight because I jumped her ass about it. Well...not a fight. She just stopped talking. So I was lecturing a phone. But sonofbitch! Women don't listen to logic, reason, common sense, and certainly don't want to be reminded of thier vulnerability. How the fuck do you get through to them and wake them the fuck up BEFORE ITS TOO LATE?!?!
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