One of the most difficult skills in the martial arts is fighting women. The problem is that a woman just flat out CAN NOT win a fight against a man. Could Rousey beat your 120lb drunken untrained cousin Bob? Sure, but that's not the topic. For all intents and purposes, women CAN NOT beat men. Delusional self defense and martial arts instructors claiming otherwise is pure bullshido. What CAN women do? Fight hard enough and well enough to earn themselves a proper ass kicking and/or trigger a man's defensive response. This raises several important issues for the male martial artists in arranging his defense against aggressive females. The first issue is that no matter what you do, or what the circumstance is, you will have to fight the white knight, be it a bystander or the legal system. The second, is that should you be chivalrous yourself, you'll not wish to deal out assloads of damage. This is where things get interesting.
I've found that there are two types of women that will attack you, women that can fight, and women that can't. A woman that can't fight is safer for all parties. She'll deal only slap damage and can be easily restrained by grabbing the arms. This has the benefit of her not being able to hurt you and you not NEEDING to hurt her. The second type is a woman that can fight. They're dangerous in and of themselves, but they also draw out white knights due to the force needed to stop them. They like to attack first, attack without warning and attack in effective manners. They are dangerous. Like all women, they CAN NOT WIN. However, they can deal damage, and may deal enough damage, should they be left to their own devices, to hurt you.
I personally have witnessed a number of attacks in this manner. In one encounter, which was nearly fatal, a woman attacked a man from behind, choking him. He countered with a reverse headbutt. Yes Plasma, those work. She was, like the TMA guys promise, maimed. In another incident, a woman attacked a man with multiple blows to the head. He deflected them and began to counter when he was bum rushed by police. In another incident, a woman assaulted a manager and two security guards before being choked. Now, what would I suggest in terms of staying out of jail and remaining safe?
1. Never underestimate a woman's capacity for violence.
They should be on your radar just like men. This helps you to:
2. Shut them down proactively.
In Starship Troopers, there's a brilliant scene were the drill sargent is struck by a recruit. So they pull the sargent aside and ask him WTF the problem is. Why did he allow himself to be struck? Cause they might have to hang the recruit. When they act up, it can be tempting to treat them with kids gloves. Don't. Treat them aggressively. Let them know they can't win. Then they won't attack you.
3. Realize that women are MORE prone to violence.
They're not used to consequences. Men won't swing on you. Why? Cause they don't want to die. Women assume that men won't fight back. Makes them more likely to attack.
Anyways, that's my thoughts on dealing with violent women without going to jail. Shut it down early and aggressively. Let her know in your stance she can instigate a fight, but that she can't WIN a fight. Then you'll neither have to eat a blow or see a cell.
I've found that there are two types of women that will attack you, women that can fight, and women that can't. A woman that can't fight is safer for all parties. She'll deal only slap damage and can be easily restrained by grabbing the arms. This has the benefit of her not being able to hurt you and you not NEEDING to hurt her. The second type is a woman that can fight. They're dangerous in and of themselves, but they also draw out white knights due to the force needed to stop them. They like to attack first, attack without warning and attack in effective manners. They are dangerous. Like all women, they CAN NOT WIN. However, they can deal damage, and may deal enough damage, should they be left to their own devices, to hurt you.
I personally have witnessed a number of attacks in this manner. In one encounter, which was nearly fatal, a woman attacked a man from behind, choking him. He countered with a reverse headbutt. Yes Plasma, those work. She was, like the TMA guys promise, maimed. In another incident, a woman attacked a man with multiple blows to the head. He deflected them and began to counter when he was bum rushed by police. In another incident, a woman assaulted a manager and two security guards before being choked. Now, what would I suggest in terms of staying out of jail and remaining safe?
1. Never underestimate a woman's capacity for violence.
They should be on your radar just like men. This helps you to:
2. Shut them down proactively.
In Starship Troopers, there's a brilliant scene were the drill sargent is struck by a recruit. So they pull the sargent aside and ask him WTF the problem is. Why did he allow himself to be struck? Cause they might have to hang the recruit. When they act up, it can be tempting to treat them with kids gloves. Don't. Treat them aggressively. Let them know they can't win. Then they won't attack you.
3. Realize that women are MORE prone to violence.
They're not used to consequences. Men won't swing on you. Why? Cause they don't want to die. Women assume that men won't fight back. Makes them more likely to attack.
Anyways, that's my thoughts on dealing with violent women without going to jail. Shut it down early and aggressively. Let her know in your stance she can instigate a fight, but that she can't WIN a fight. Then you'll neither have to eat a blow or see a cell.
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