uncomfortable grappling with openly gay man

[akamai]

heard this in a conversation at a party, a judo guy was saying how he was very uncomfortable with going to train at his college's judo club after an openly gay man joined. he said he was afarid the gay guy is in it for the wrong reason (club is 90% male)
what are your thoughts on this?

[TheHungsta]

If his partner pops a boner while he's practicing, he knows who to avoid.

[Deadpan Scientist]

As long as the guy isn't there getting his sexual "kicks" off of grappling unsuspecting men, I don't see why gay people should not be allowed to join a club...

[Greg]

Helloooooooo! It's showaaaaa time!

[TheHungsta]

the same way u would like "grappling" with a girl, a gay person would experience incredible joy by placing his body in close proximity with another half naked male while wriggling and trying to get him to submit

[Punisher]

If the gay guy really was a pervert and just wanted to rub up against other guys, why be openly gay?

I don't think you have to roll with anyone, gay, straight, male, or female, that you don't feel comfortable with, but that is your problem not theirs.

[Greg]

[FingerorMoon?]

heard this in a conversation at a party, a judo guy was saying how he was very uncomfortable with going to train at his college's judo club after an openly gay man joined. he said he was afarid the gay guy is in it for the wrong reason (club is 90% male)
what are your thoughts on this?

Tell him to grow the fuck up.
Its a radical theory but scientists now believe you can't catch the gay disease!.

[TigerFly]

FingerorMoon? hit the nail on the head... they need to grow up and cease the homophobic behavior - it is 2003 for fucking christ sake! There are only two girls in our class, and when we are there we aren't focused on getting laid, we are focused on training. I am sure the same is true for gay men.

[The Wastrel]

BUt If he Iz Ghey he will Grabe MY BOnerr!!

[TigerFly]

If you have a b0nar in class and in close enough proximiatey that a gay guy can grab your b0nar - there is a good chance you are ghey, so whats the issue? :)

*runs FAR away from topic*

[The Wastrel]

Thank you for ruining the hilarity of my point by forcing me to come out and explain it.

[The Wastrel]

I didn't mean "come out"...I meant...Damn...

[TigerFly]

if you can't possible forget about getting laid for 2-3 hours to concentrate on training - why are you there? I mean seriously - there is a guy in our class as hot as all fuck AND the other girl is a fucking knock out, but that is simply the only passing thought I have had about either in class. I know that Djimbe thinks the girl is hot - but is he thinking about nailing her to the point of a bonar in class... no he isn't.

I guess being bi, I can't see there being an issue unless someone intentionally grabs your booootay or package. But I can say that if in class I was groped by anyone - guy or girl I would have the same reaction - it is inappropriate in the setting (wait until AFTER class :))

[blankslate]

I'd create a special "Randori" initiation for that queer judoka.

Yeah, he'd think twice about coming back after that!