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    #16
    "So ... was I wrong? Should I have just gone with her not doing the right thing, ignored it?

    As an aside, I have been expressly requested by Sifu to not instruct other people during class. I get too impatient."
    call your teacher over to try to help.....you ain't being paid to teach (looks who's talking PizDoff....)

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      #17
      WTdude hhaahah you gonna get deleted now!!!

      "You should have told her she wasn't doing the right thing, but not told her what to do.... i have the same problem about instructing people so what I usually do is tell them they're wrong but tell them to ask sifu to correct them. If they keep doing the wrong thing, that's their problem, I won't let htem do something that hurts me but I won't stop them from screwing up. Then when it's my turn, I do it right.

      Sometimes I do them a favour if they won't ask sifu by getting sifu to come over and asking him to show *me* again what to do... a lot of newbies are uncomfortable asking for help."
      that's definately good, though i'm too cool to ask Sifu to show "me" the proper way most of the time, lol

      hmm my attitude needs to be changed a bit....well

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        #18
        Well, if she was doing it right during solo drills, but then flubbing during partner practice, it's probably because she's nervous about getting hit or hitting you. Give her more time to get used to it. Slow it down. She's still new.

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          #19
          Oh, no. She was not nervous about hitting me. She's sloppy and agressive in partner drills, always, even in boxing. Did you miss the part about her actively trying to hurt me later?

          Frankly, I merely find WTDude's comment confusing.

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          Principal Scudworth: "Unacceptable? Did you see the pool? They FLIPPED the bitch!"
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            #20
            JKDChick,

            Try the positive approach. Tell her what you like about the things she is doing. If there are only a small number of things, or only one, focus on that and give her resonable praise. After you have inflated her ego a bit, use the same positive approach toward what she is doing badly. Try not to sound negative, since this will not give you the desired response from her, and then work with her on what she needs help with. Do not instruct, but give a good demonstration. Seek out your Sifu to give her advice, perhaps have him observe her when you are training together.

            Other then that, the only thing you can do is not train with her. But that would not be desireable since diversity (not quotas, LOL) in training partners is always a plus.

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            Willing is not enough, we must do.
            Knowing it is not enough, we must apply.
            Willing is not enough, we must do.

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              #21
              WTDude may have been ironic. :)

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                #22
                That's what I get for reading fast...on second skim, it kinda reminds me of Hemingway v. Stein.

                JKDChick, I think the biggest problem you are having is the fact that you don't understand women. If you could try to get a woman's perspective on things it might help you out alot in situations like this.

                Edited by - WTDude on April 24 2003 12:10:23
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                  #23
                  I was just being silly!

                  You can't make a man by standing a sheep on its hindlegs but if you get a group of men together you can create a herd of sheep.

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                    #24
                    At my club most of the time it's just the regulars and I ahve a regular sparring partner who works well with me.

                    Some people are just embarrassed and irritated that what is so hard for them is easy for you. Now if they don't respect you they will resent your advice and feel that you are making fun of them. In this case don't start a fight 'cos they wont accept anything but the highest authority and that means the sensei. Respect is an important thing in the dojo, and those that can't give it rarely stay long.


                    Now doesn't that make you feel better?

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                      #25
                      I personally love it when my partners tell me what I'm doing wrong. Having my mistakes pointed out to me is the only way I learn.

                      Chances are this girl you practice with is gonna get over her ego or drop out sometime soon. There's on other way, really.
                      You say what about my rice?

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