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    Quote Originally Posted by Pezzle View Post
    And people wonder why I spend almost every waking hour wailing on the heavy bag and training / sparring nowadays.

    The brain is a fantastic and strange thing. That's all I'm sayin. When evil people know how to **** with that strange and fantastic thing while it's still developing, people get hurt.
    Sympathy and respect.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lebell View Post
    well its obvious most of you people come from suburbia.
    in my experience most of the abuse of any sort falls mostly to the ' you do it to yourself category'.

    the women who always fall for the asshole.
    the drunk guy with the big mouth against the wrong kinda people.
    etc.

    one time i nearly got lynched in my regular bar: this chick walks in with her face cut up.
    got jumped and robbed at 4 in the morning when she was walking home drunk all by herself.
    i was the only one asking her:' why were you walking drunk all by yourself at 4 in the morning?'

    i dont interfere with otherpeoples stupidity cos ive seen people get stabbed over that ****.

    and no, it doesnt make me an asshole, im not batman and 'you' should have known better if you're an adult.

    its a different thing when children are involved or when its obvious bullying.
    Some of you guys need to realize that he is making a good point. In many domestic abuse cases the abused person will side with the abuser when police are called (I have lots of LEO friends including my brother). It's been told to me that this is one of the most dreaded calls LEO receive.

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    Sometimes people need to get **** even if there is a good point buried in the hyperbole.

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    Quote Originally Posted by War Wheel View Post
    Are you fucking serious? There is very little that justifies battering *anyone* around. Woman or not.

    Would you hit a man that raped a kid? Would you hit a woman who did the same? If you answered differently either of those, you are on thin ice IMO.

    Women are not fine china, they are human beings. Not knowing how to fight is not an excuse for asking strangers to risk life an limb to protect you. ANd yes I have stepped in on occasion.
    True violence of any sort is unmerited. However to be fair people obviously react differently if the aggressor is a woman.

    What was the situation you intervened in?

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    Quote Originally Posted by It is Fake View Post
    Sometimes people need to get **** even if there is a good point buried in the hyperbole.
    i washed your panties, but apearantly i didnt get all the sand out.
    for this i apologise.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lebell View Post
    i washed your panties, but apearantly i didnt get all the sand out.
    for this i apologise.

    xxx,

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    You buy my panties off of ebay? Wow. Thanks for paying my bills.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alucard619 View Post
    True violence of any sort is unmerited. However to be fair people obviously react differently if the aggressor is a woman.
    Doesn't make it right.

    What was the situation you intervened in?
    Drunk guy on train punched condutor lady when she asked him to stop smoking.
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    Quote Originally Posted by It is Fake View Post
    You have to ignore lebell. He lives in that perfect storm country where he has experience in all political circles, all walks of life, all social climates, all class levels and can comment on everything in every country.

    That said, he did say "in my experience" so, that says more about the company he keeps than your own situation.
    Lol it's all good... it just got me thinking, that's all IIF.

    Back to your regularly scheduled Lebell Lolz

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pezzle View Post
    I guess you mean for adults?

    I was sexually abused for 3 years starting at the age of 15 by this guy I thought was my friend. He started mentally breaking me down at 14, playing off my self esteem problems and obvious weight issues at the time and eventually moved to threatening physical torture if I 'betrayed him' to anyone. At first - like 4 months - there was consent and curiosity on my part but this quickly turned to disgust.. Yet this happened for three full years. Did I do it to myself? Was I made a victim? He was so wound up in my head at this point I feared to say no to even his most bizarre things, when I eventually got up the courage to say no, he'd just hold me down.

    And people wonder why I spend almost every waking hour wailing on the heavy bag and training / sparring nowadays.

    The brain is a fantastic and strange thing. That's all I'm sayin. When evil people know how to **** with that strange and fantastic thing while it's still developing, people get hurt.

    It's kind of irrelevant to someone being able to step in.. some of my friends brought up the idea that he might be a terrible human being but I didn't see it and I was afraid. He never beat me or anything outright unless you count the fun horse play stuff that always turned into him punching me. Your comment just sort of made me wonder where the line is.
    The line is in the end with the victim.
    Don't get me wrong, its a shame what happened to you and i wish a better childhood for you.
    Thedanger however lies to make victims out of everything.
    Im talking generally here.
    Anyone 25ish or older has at ne point or another met the type f girl who's always extravagant and playfull in bars and hooks p with the biggest creeps and all that.
    Or the dude who's usualy a really nice guy but gets a nasty mouth on him when he's with a group of friends and/or drunk.

    Do bad things need to happen to inexperienced, vulnerable, stupid or damaged people?
    ofcourse not.

    but a hell of a lot of the victims will stick with their husband.
    ever seen an abused dog?
    no matter how badly abused, if you would like to teach the owner a lesson that same dog would be hanging in YOUR leg.
    sometimes these things arent logical.

    when you dont know the people, how they got there, what they are arguing about, stay away and safe yourself a lot of grief.
    cant save em all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by It is Fake View Post
    You buy my panties off of ebay? Wow. Thanks for paying my bills.
    i love it when you get all passive agressive on me.
    MEOW!
    gimme moar.
    it reminds me of a hot girlfriend i used to have.

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