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Posted On:
11/29/2009 6:31pm
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X2 on the counselling. There are a large number of resources available, free of charge (at least in Ontario, in the socialist republik of Quebek there should be even more).
Sounds like you have been attracting the wrong crowd, and that applies to this site as well.
Incidentally, the best defence is not BJJ, it is confidence and situational awareness. -
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I talked to an older friend of mine who used to be a counsellor in a women's center, and according to her, to conclusion is that I have confidence issues and abusive men jump on that occasion to get what they want with manipulation. I don't really want to get back at them now, since they where still threading legal waters, so to speak... Only thing to do is to learn to say a big resounding NO.
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Posted On:
12/04/2009 12:39pm
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First, I've heard about the dreaded Shamrock vs Severn fight, and I must point out that they where both pure grapplers, thus enphazising the pure grappler stalemate strategy even more.
Second, of course Abbot wasn't nearly conditioned enough, thus getting winded pretty fast. But the mere fact that he was a simple streetfighter that didn't care at all about martial arts and still had a fair amount of success in the UFC helped expose the silliness and delusions of many asian arts.
Finally, I think the issue about BJJ is that while it was a stroke of genius for the gracies to figure that by forcing a fight to the ground strikers would be helpless, I don't think getting the fight on the ground on purpose is a good strategy anywhere outside of a referred one on one dojo situation. A pretty good art to know in the case you go to the ground anyway, but getting there on purpose in a life threatening scenario is nonsense. :icon_eek: -
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Posted On:
12/04/2009 1:18pm
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A friend of mine was once randomly grabbed by a lone attacker in the middle of a field while walking home at night (he lives in the country). No knives were involved and as he describes it the fight was pretty much a clumsy crapple fest from the start. BJJ would have been pretty useful in that situation. Certainly better than falling into a pond and thrashing around till the other guy got bored and went away, which is how it actually panned out.
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Posted On:
12/06/2009 7:34am
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You know, it strikes me that if I were being assaulted, being able to stop a bigger stronger guy that's on top of me from seriously hurting me for TWENTY MINUTES seems like EXACTLY what I'd want to do, while trying to get someone's attention and help. This entire thing is based on the fact that the OP didn't notice what was happening in the fight.
And why does everybody assume that when the fight goes to the ground, grapplers are all landing on the bottom? I like to let the other guy be a nice soft cushion. -
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