Thread: I am better then you
10/13/2007 8:44pm, #1
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I find it really sad that no matter where I go on this website, I remain unable to locate a single thread where people aren't spewing negativitey, and bashing one another.
Almost like many of the people on here need to validate themselves throught childish bickering, as if they have no real confidence in their own being outside of this "community". (And yes, I use that term loosely.)
Many of us claim to be martial artists, but very few of the people here can actually claim to carry them mentaility that martial arts are meant to teach us. The footwork is only half the training, the other was supposed to be our own spiritual refinement. For those who are here for debating, and discussion purposes, I see very few elements of this. Whenever there is someone who consistantly has valid points in such exchanges, they get very upset when another person counters what they have to say. And when they are unable to retort, they simply begin to act childish rather than bowing to the person who has proven their own worth. It's terribly disheartening. Shouldn't we have left the idea of "My Kung Fu is stronger" or "Your Karate is weak" back in the era in which is belongs?
And then when people decide to dispute the reputability of another organization, or martial arts instructor they make claims of "Facts" they they were refered to by their friend's cousin's best friend's uncle. (A mockery if you didn't pick up on that.)
Many of these people don't bother to do any research themselves, and just take other peoples word for it. I'm not saying the facts are wrong, but they don't bother checking the facts themselves. On a few occasions you will find that the "Educated Researcher" who wrote some article, is actually selling their own version of "REAL traditional Kung Fu" or a neat little book of facts about it. And couldn't it ever be possible that their unfounded "Facts" are meant to stir the nest so that they can make a few extra bucks off of the controversy? I don't want to defend anybody here, but I don't want to fight anyone either.
These fights that we engage eachother on are battles that we will never win. Dispite what pseudo funny names we fling around. Even if we prove one member of the opposition is a fraud, or is following one, we still don't win. We always lose. Everbody always loses, and will continue to. No matter how strong our "Kung Fu" is, and no matter how practical our "Jutsu" may be.
Good day, and I hope my message can reach at least one person out there.
I never made this into a thread, and I never once thought of myself better than anyone else out there. Why did someone decide to turn it into that? I don't know, and I don't really care to.
They obviously felt they had some reason to take such action, and it has really disappointed me.
And as for my training in TKD, I only trained in it because I think it's fun, not because I plan to use it for fighting. I trained with my father, so I really grew to enjoy it. He taught me a lot, but made sure I knew had to hold my ground in real life. He was a street fighter for most of his life, so he didn't teach me any useless or impractical things about it. So I'd appreciate if you guys left that issue alone.
My main style is Muay Thai, and Karate is something I do on the side.
Once again, I'm not claiming to be better than you, nor do I think I am. Somebody on the website turned this into a thread, when it was just a simple post.
A rather childish move I must say.
Last edited by ResidentSamurai; 10/14/2007 5:03pm at .
10/13/2007 9:02pm, #2
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Well said! Sometimes there is so much pseudo ass-kicking going on I feel like I need to take a shower to wash the manure off.
Who cares what style of martial art one practices, anyway? If it works for you then I'm happy for you! The focus ought to be on the quality available in each of the individual styles, not in grabbin' yer package to show everybody else how tough YOU are.
10/14/2007 2:46am, #3Originally Posted by kittenbritches
Most dont care what sort of martial arts anyone does. There is a good amount of in fun teasing about it (eg: haha, you do TKD- *****) and talk about what may be- in general- the most effective training methods or styles, but that in no way suggests that any one person is good till we have proof.
Then we get the idiots that take life and themselves way to seriously, and make claims that are hard to believe. these idiots are then treated to a full bullshido welcome and this often leads to alot of crap. We also get alot of crap overflow from other sites.
That is a part of this sites identity. ie: we dont take stupid crap, but we'll give you **** about it. :)
Originally Posted by ResidentSamurai
The footwork is only half the training, the other was supposed to be our own spiritual refinement
And when they are unable to retort, they simply begin to act childish rather than bowing to the person who has proven their own worth. It's terribly disheartening. Shouldn't we have left the idea of "My Kung Fu is stronger" or "Your Karate is weak" back in the era in which is belongs?
It's a very honest post all in all, but come on, we're just having fun most of the time. Just asking people to grow up is such a noble goal, good luck with that. ;)
Also, keep in mind that we have some very young posters on here, so immaturity is a given.
Even if we prove one member of the opposition is a fraud, or is following one, we still don't win.
Stupid is everywhere, there is no escape!!
edit* spelling... wow- thats quite possibly my longest post ever... woot!
Last edited by syberia; 10/14/2007 5:38pm at .
10/14/2007 4:09am, #4
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10/14/2007 4:10am, #5
We already had this thread.
10/14/2007 5:16am, #6Originally Posted by MEGA JESUS-SAMA
10/14/2007 7:40am, #7Originally Posted by syberia
10/14/2007 7:42am, #8Originally Posted by ResidentSamurai
Who gives a ****? It's the goddamn internet.
And really...it's not like things are different in the real world."Onward we stagger, and if the tanks come, may God help the tanks." - Col. William O. Darby
10/14/2007 7:46am, #9
"Your message" is the reason people like me got suckered into karate and got beat up for our troubles.
Luckily, I walked away with little more then hurt feelings, others might not be so lucky
10/14/2007 8:05am, #10
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