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    Quote Originally Posted by Blue Negation View Post
    What would you do with a similarly sized blue belt male?
    If you mean similarly sized to me:

    Fight to win.
    I'm gonna lose anyway so stick to what I know and don't give an inch.

    If you mean similarly sized to her:

    probably still fight to win now that I think about it. But if I can just smash through the fella I usually try not to, because i'm not getting better that way. To be honest I'd treat him much the same way as I do the girl.

    I don't mind losing so long as I remain technical, but it's not a common situation I encounter as I'm about average strength and i've never really faced a guy much weaker than I.

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    would it be totally weird to ask how hard she wanted to go?

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    Hands end up on boobs from time to time. It only ever gets a second thought from me because I'm worried about it being awkward for them, it's clinical for me and completely separated from sensuality.

    Just lookin' to create space, ma'am.

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    It's kind of funny watching guys freak the first time they put hands there. I always wait till it registers and say "It's okay, it's the nature of the game, get on with the roll" and then ignore it from then on.

    After that it's their problem.
    Monkey Ninjas! Attack!

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    It's kind of funny watching guys freak the first time they put hands there. I always wait till it registers and say "It's okay, it's the nature of the game, get on with the roll" and then ignore it from then on.

    After that it's their problem.
    I rolled with a guy back home once and he put his hand on my chest. I dont care, whatever. He reacted like he'd accidentally punched me in the face. Kept apologising, it was totally ok if i wanted to take a minute, blah blah. Wouldn't listen to a word I said. Still doesn't, I dont look foward to rolling with him these days. I may as well use a grappling dummy, for all the movement he puts in.


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    Quote Originally Posted by vinhthekid View Post
    holy necro. jesus 7 years.
    thebigdog is systematically necromongreling every post on the site. :s

    I don't have a problem sparring a girl just as I don't have a problem sparring a weaker guy. They may have better technique on the ground but I try to watch it on stand up and use the opportunity to work on my defense. Nothing to prove sparring.

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    Never saw the big deal about the boob grab.

    I always just say "Uh, my bad, wasn't my intention" then fight on. Aren't we all grow'd up now?

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    Unless the lady you're rolling with has the full on two-cracked-eggs-on-a-pair-of-nails thing going on, you're probably posturing wrong if you're grabbing handfuls of tit while you're in her guard.


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    THIS IS GOING TO BE THE BEST NON-EUCLIDIAN SPLATTERJOUST EVER

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    Quote Originally Posted by samantha711 View Post
    Most people from ADCC know that I rolled once with a guy that I thought was hurting me with his hardass cup, later to find out (he didn't wear one) I only roll once with this type person...lol

    <img src=icon_smile_blackeye.gif border=0 align=middle> Sam
    did nobody lul!? WTF?!

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    Hell yeah! Hell no!
    personally i don't do genders when im training.
    nobody forced anyone to be there, so i wont go easy on anyone if they do not specifically ask so.
    one time we had this girl at sanda class who smirked not to go easy on her since she was already good at muay thai.
    i kicked her legs out 3 times.
    nope i didnt feel bad, nor should i, an opponent is an opponent.

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