Alright, I'm just not going to reply because I know that if I do I'm going to catch a beatdown somehow. =) But yeah, the implications involved in wrestling a girl...I don't wanna deal with that. Though given, a girl with TaeBo training could kick my ass at this point.
No by all means, beat her down she needs a good ass kicking...
I know there's a lot of BJJ schools and submission school in Cali. Here's a good place to check out school. Jiu-Jitsu.net
u can try some internal kungfu, in san diego go to this site by mike patterson(www.hsing-i.com
n ba-gua by sifu park bok nam and there r some more...
i think watever art u do u should try internal stuff, but hey don't be so happy u can't shoot fireballs in internal kungfu, u know wat i mean..