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Posted On:
3/25/2008 7:34am--
Paragon is well spoken of by a friend of mine, Trad JJ 2nd Dan. He no longer lives close by and has gone the BJJ route (Blue Belt); still, he holds the Lawson bros in high esteem so that's good enough for me. I had thought about going myself but I had enough to occupy myself with....
The second point, as part of my progresssion to Dan Grade, I sought extra training at a Gay club (I had a lot of choice, the options were many miles away) and, of course, someone grabbed my bum and other little provocative gestures. I ignored all this and just considered it a minor distraction on the way to my goal. Eventually, I was the token Straight in the corner and had no other problems.
I had 2 different experiences with Gay women. One refused to train with me but this was more a reflection that I had less knowledge and she didn't want to go backwards to teach me. I accepted this (as if I fucking had a choice) but eventually overtook her. The second women did not want to train with me either (I could see this) but acted in the spirit of co-operative progress (after all, I paid my mat fee) and showed me quite of a lot of the syllabus. Subsequently (and much later) the first woman vouched her opinion that the club was "heterophobic" - her words - but she had long since fallen out with the sensei and needed the support of my club(s) to get her Dan.
Simply put, prejudice works both ways.



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9/27/2006 10:23am
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