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2/08/2007 10:38am
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With four kids, you've definitely got teh r34l parent-fu.
Originally Posted by Uechidude
However, I think 'discipline' at home isn't enough. I think kids need some sort of physical discipline -- sports, martial arts, whatever -- to truly excel.
I think confidence in one's physical abilities is an equally important part of character development as whatever ethics/morals/discipline is taught at home, and that is the source of the many oft-touted benefits of martial arts training for kids comes from.
However, I think any sport or physical activity can generate the same results.
(Just FYI -- I have two sons myself -- one is 3 years old, and one is 1 year old -- compared to you I am a 9th Kyu in parent-fu...)
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Not one where mediocrity is held up as the new outstanding and competition is sacrificed to the alter of self esteem.However, I think any sport or physical activity can generate the same results.
"Without an adversary prowess shrivels. We see how great and efficient it really is only when it shows by endurance what it is capable of."
Seneca (5 BC - 65 AD)"Reason is a choice. Wishes and whims are not facts, nor are they a means to discovering them. Reason is our only way to grasping reality -- it's our basic tool of survival. We are free to evade the effort of thinking, to reject reason, but we are not free to avoid the penalty of the abyss we refuse to see."
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What I was trying to say, you cannot rely on a dojo etc to teach your children, what they should know, and practice, i.e. Common courtesy, should be taught from birth, school work/activities, can be handled at home, and use something new to inspire your children to learn. Go read some articles, and books, give your self some fresh ideas on how to educate your child, and make learning fun, as well as challanging. Last, but not least, dont come home from work (as most of us are tired) flop on the couch etc, turn on TV, and ignore child/children, until its dinner time. Parents have to make their presense felt, and we should be the one ultimately, putting our ideas into our childrens heads, not schools, teachers, or dojo's such as this one. As far as the physical challanges, MA's are fine my daughter attends my dojo. 5 years now, and 2 of my sons have several years in Uechi Ryu as well. So all I am saying we (parents) need to be a part of our childs development.
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Not just 'part,' but the main component. What we teach at home should be reinforced outside the home, not vice versa.So all I am saying we (parents) need to be a part of our childs development."Reason is a choice. Wishes and whims are not facts, nor are they a means to discovering them. Reason is our only way to grasping reality -- it's our basic tool of survival. We are free to evade the effort of thinking, to reject reason, but we are not free to avoid the penalty of the abyss we refuse to see."
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2/09/2007 11:38am
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I agree 100%!
Originally Posted by Uechidude
My only inspiration for posting was somewhat reactionary -- not to you, but to the sometimes overstated 'anti-kids' martial arts or 'ethics/philosophy/morals shouldn't be part of a martial arts education' sentiments -- usually spouted by MMA nutriding teens/twenty-somethings with no kids.
I'm not saying ethics/etc need or must be part of a martial arts education, but I'd like to see the common sense/morals/etc I teach my kids re-inforced in the dojo to a degree -- hopefully without having to learn Crapkido or Crap Kwon Do. =) -
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Just as an update to the Wola-Do questions. I have emailed the head of the organization with some questions. He has responded to me with some material and I am in the process of emailing him back to ask if I can copy/paste his email onto the board. Otherwise I'll simply be giving a brief over view of what I asked and how he answered. Keep in mind I'm not going to say any sort of opinion based on the answers I received. I'll leave that up to ya'll to make your own decision and discuss it. I don't want my own personal biases influencing anyone else's critical thinking. Won't be around for the weekend so probably will get to this either late Sunday night or Monday at some point.
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