5/23/2013 11:19am, #521
This is Bullshido, a forum for serious martial artists with senses of humor and a head for reason.
So far, you've shown zero humor, and even less reason.
I was pointing out that you claim to be a loving father on YOUR blog, but then you **** all over other people's sites just like you are doing now.
Would you read your posts out loud to those boys? No.
Either your accounts are hacked and some dipshit is abusing them, or you are indeed the dipshit in question and fully responsible for acting like a 9 year old.
I will leave it at that.
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5/23/2013 11:21am, #522
What they do, however, is a significant improvement on what you are displaying.
It would be several steps up for you to emulate masses. With effort, you might even achieve it.
Thinking like an individual, fully-evolved human being might not be a feasible objective in your lifetime, but you can always try.
What you're currently posting here does not constitute trying.
5/23/2013 11:22am, #523
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5/23/2013 11:23am, #524
5/23/2013 11:24am, #525
5/23/2013 11:28am, #526Dealing My Way - Emotional Pain
May 23rd, 2010
Am finding that there are times of the year that affect me deeply due to a loss or a first time event. But also find that people tend to be most vocal with the opinions of how I should be feeling. I do have a tendency to wear my heart on my sleeve and feel things so keenly. I withdraw, wallow, experience the pain and then get on with my life. I have some that understand and leave me to deal with it, I have some that don't but respect that and then there are others that feel that I should just get over it. Ultimately that last batch, whose motives are generally noble, are the ones that make it the hardest. There is a feeling of being judged, of not having my feelings validated.
"Sure, she died 11 years ago, and it was a shame that she was only 4 1/2 months, but she wasn't yours".
I may not have helped create her, but the pain I felt and still feel on the date she left us is still raw. Always will be on that date. My not being there to celebrate my little ones birthday is going to hurt. Yet again he is not yours so why not get over it. He is as much mine as if I helped create him. Parenthood is not a biological condition, it is a heart condition. That is what my 2 heart children taught me. So the pain is just as real. The loss is just as real. Nothing will ever fill the hole in my heart, my soul, that is left through her passing. I may not be handling things the way they say I should, they believe I should, but that does not make it the wrong way. Just MY way.
5/23/2013 11:29am, #527
My only thought for your kids is that you don't talk to them the way you talk here, because kids often need their self-esteem reinforced. So far you don't appear to be qualified.
Prove me wrong by posting a video of you NOT playing with a sword.
You want to know my own secret? I love to be proven wrong. It is so jarring it often sends me straight back into my zen place.
5/23/2013 11:29am, #528
That's not really fair. In this thread, most members are indeed trolling you, but you seemed to have forgotten that you trolled us first. Consider your post you made earlier that started all this. You may not have seen it as a troll post yourself, but communities, even online ones, tend to be made up of people who are like minded.
We all construed your post as trolling. You can hem and haw about us all being sheeple, but the fact remains that it's disingenuous on your part to come into a group of people's living room, disrespect their values and then proceed to tell them how stupid they are. Don't you think?
5/23/2013 11:30am, #529
Interesting how one persons definition of a individual means that they have to think and act and say what others want them to. LOL
Why do so many people think that they have the right and even the wisdom to tell me how I am to act, think or even say? You really that pathetic here? PMSL
5/23/2013 11:30am, #530