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2/20/2013 7:20pm--
The Korean Judo coaches are all whistling and looking the other way right about now for sure.
Personally, as a coach, I don't like to use shame as a motivator, and can't remember the last time I did. In fact, I do not like think "shame and blame" is appropriate period as a way to deal with anyone.
I do, however, know the temptation of doing so, as a coach. Some kids (and adults) came up in families where shame and blame were commonly used, so respond to it as a motivator. At those times I have to separate my ego and desires from those of the student.
I just read, while sitting in the orthodontists office waiting for my boys, the story of Kayla Harrison and the abuse she suffered at the hands of her former Judo coach.
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2/20/2013 10:42pm1
I feel like shaming your athletes is going to make them waaay more likely to just up and quit.
Additionally, beating your athletes would seem to violate the rules about no striking in Judo.The fool thinks himself immortal,
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There's shame and there's shame.
Embarrassing someone by making them stay after to do extra training, or dropping them to do pushups is vastly different than making them stand on a box in their underwear pretending to be a teapot. -
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Posted On:
2/22/2013 1:46pm
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Since when does one need to obtain special permission for admonishing? Some cultures are, as you have rightly discerned, woefully in need of review.
Which might suggest that the culture is not in fact the homogenous mass of harmony and cherry blossoms the Japan Statistics Bureau so desperately wants it to be.



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