Shut the **** up, get off the intern.....
ok you get the picture. All you can do is train more, it doesn't matter if people "beat" you because they're your training partners.
If you let yourself be pre-occupied with being better than the people in your school, you'll stagnate fast because you'll end up clinging onto them in guard to stop them passing and/or not trying anything new in case it doesn't work and you get tapped.
Who cares if someone taps you and they think they're better than you? Just concentrate on your own progression. Look for ways YOU have improved. Did you get any reversals, escapes or sweeps? Did you try out a new game and how did it work?
The best advice has already been given. Shut up and train more.