I am one of the three........I am sure....Like I posted earlier I was on a rice and kimchee diet for over a year...I only lost 20 pounds and I was given some fruit for the constipation. I was Anemic and before surgery I had to eat a ton of tofu, as that is rich in iron, to get my iron up before they could operate. My metabolism is shot..I don't have one. Some people are fat, some are not. I'm not feeling bad because I was not small like her, but I feel that I have the inter beauty that she lacks....It would be a sad world if everyone was alike. I'm a clothes horse and I wish I could wear smaller clothes but I can't. No one is perfect. shs is just as much to blame as he is the one who complained about the grocery bill. He also told me to stop feeding the athletes that came there so much meat. At the time they were paying $500.00 a day to train, seems like you should be able to eat some meat for that amount of money, back in 91. Special diets weren't to make you healthier but to trim the food costs. shs is cheap....he is money hungry too.....I wonder if he got chastised when he told me to try to get tyk to spend less money? He wanted to halt her spending too. The diets for us adults, we have to own because we were adults, but it was so unfair for what the kids had to go through. I know that Chica and Ryan were deprived of food....But being with tyk all the time I didn't see the extent of it. I just knew they were frail children. I'm so glad to see that they made it to adulthood. I haven't see Ryan yet but Chica has grown to be a beautiful woman and is flourishing. Keep up the good work Chica. I hope you can forgive me for not giving you more attention. I cannot forgive someone that harms children. I try but can't find it in my heart yet.