I have sparred with many wrestlers, and only on BJJer. I'm asking the questions to get some ideas. I'm not a grappler. I don't do BJJ. I do train some ground fighting. I have fought people who were much better on the ground than me. I have beaten most of them...by getting my ass off the ground, or not ever going down.
I suggest you spar with some wrestlers, judokas, sambists or BJJers in order to find this out for yourself. Judging by the questions you have asked, it appears that you haven't done this.