This thread has potential!
Two instructors of two different schools, both of whom obviously dislike the other, accusations of Bullshido from both sides, accusations of dishonesty and suckitude from one side, and now a challenge to a fight to settle all differences.
I live in Pittsburgh, and I've not been to either school, but have read positive things about each in other forums. Read Bob Barnum's (the owner of MAAP) blog here: http://fightingwords.pittsburghboxing.com/, he doesn't sound like he's full of ****. His equipment and other advice seems to be on the money (although I am *far* from an expert). The pictures on Bob's site (http://www.themaap.com/gallery.htm) also look like people training with legitimate gear, and training hard. We have a statement in this thread from a former student of Bob's that at MAAP, they spar full contact.
As for Stephen and Sit Dragon Leg--they also look legit. Statements from a current student, and pics from his site also seem to support that Stephen is not peddling bullshido (http://www.sit-dragonleg.com/pgh_thai_gallery.htm).
I've no knowledge of the nature of your disagreement, but I'd suggest that bad-mouthing each other in a public forum, like Bullshido, is not the place to settle it. While your dispute certainly is amusing reading, I don't think you're serving the best interests of your schools, or your students by airing your differences here.
Now that I've played Gandhi, and tried to be reasonable, I'll add this: if the two of you fight, please video it, and post it. Thanks!