The problem is that your definition of 'beating' someone isn't shared by many on bullshido. It's based on you shouting 'I win! I would have killed you!'.
I should try it full contact? So I gotta try to break his neck and cripple him to prove it works or doesn't? what if I does work? and what does going against college or high school wrestlers have to do with it? I am talking about one situation while sparring with a walk in to my gym, where I clearly beat a guy and he wasn't intersted in understanding why.
I can make a lot of bad techniques work against a totally prone, compliant opponent, including overly complex wristlocks. It doesn't validate the techniques.
I have an idea, lay down on the floor and let a friend do an pointed elbow drop to the back of your neck, with full power and body weight, in an honest attempt to break bone, and tell us about it.