You get one warning.
Really? Self-depreciating humor about my autistic inability to interact with women (even through the internet) isn't welcome. Oh well. I can see the problem, especially if someone took that seriously. Hostile atmosphere etc. etc.
But I guess the typed stutter wasn't enough of an indication of intent, and that's fine, the failing in execution was my fault. But keep your **** consistent so I can at least know when I'm crossing the line.
For the record, the joke was:
HAY GUISE IT'S A WIMMINS, i mean, wait, what? Oh ****, what do i say? i hope she doesn't think I'm weird. Say something. no not that. hit on her. they like that right? oh god i don't know and now my shift key doesn't work.
You're right about the misogyny in martial arts sometimes though. A guy outside our gym followed one of my fellow female students around and just told her that he was stronger than her because he was so insecure about seeing a sweaty girl in hand wraps buying a gatorade..
It is directing your misogyny to a female member that is the basis for the rules. When male members (lol) are asking women members to look at their penis, or asking them to show pics, they are targeting them specifically and thus might drive individual women from the site, or make potential members afraid of posting for fear they are going to be disregarded or disrespected. There are many female martial artists who would contribute greatly to this site.
Besides, we don't want to be a boys only club. Who would make the sandwiches? Just kidding. I'd make them. I hope you like arsenic, arseholes.