Oh and I'm not accusing you of being that TMAer.
Words mean what consensus decides they mean.
You can call your martial art "Millinery" if you want, but people will be within their rights to expect to be able to make a hat.
I will just comment on the BJJ, My name is Shane Poppleton, I am a Brown belt under Daniel Lima, my lineage is as follows:
Mitsuyo Maeda -> Carlos Gracie -> Reylson Gracie -> Paulo Mauricio Strauch -> Flavio Nobre -> Daniel Lima -> Shane Poppleton (Me)
My competition record can be found here:
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