Also it would appear to be a mixup about who Arianny got into a fight with. She didn't try to fight Tiki, she tried to fight her boyfriend Praveen Chandra.
the real crime here is that this ugly ****- http://pennyjomma.files.wordpress.co...ng_400x800.jpg is (or was) banging my future wife
I'd guess you'd have to be somewhat of a ****** since you'd have to be unable to keep a handle on the woman and you don't get out of the situation. However, its a smart and safe move if its a persistant problem. You don't want to one day have to hit her to defend yourself and realize YOU are the one being domestically abusive, according to the public.
Originally Posted by judoka_uk
The story I read never said it was a re-occuring problem. Sounds like it was just one fucked up situation, who knows how quickly it escalated. So how the hell else is one supposed to "keep a handle" on a psychotic woman?
Originally Posted by dwkfym
You can't reason with them and try to talk them down. They're women: all they'll do is shriek at you and bleed all over the place for no explicable reason.
You can't lay a single finger on them, even if they're successfully beating you over the head with aforementioned sauce pan. You will go to jail.
What do you do to keep a handle on another human being, and not be perceived as "somewhat of a ******"? Enlighten me.
I think you need to read my post in the context of judoka_uk's post I was responding to. Do you realize I'm saying it was actually a good course of action?
No, I read your post the whole way through, I understand that we're on the same page here. I suppose that means I was responding almost entirely to your first sentence, there. Just wanting to know what makes this poor domestic violence victim "somwhat of a ******". If that was sarcasm on your part then, well, fml I blame the the internets for not conveying that to me in an overly obvious way.
Originally Posted by dwkfym
Real talk guys, I model/act/musician on the side, im not going to give you guys any work because i dont want the exposure on this site.
It was for page parks, and Neil hammel. Now I freelance/produce, aside from my government job. There are a ton of crazy bitches in this industry that will do anything to get ahead, yes females are capable of commiting rape, torture, beatings, etc. let me share my story about my ex-psycho-agent-model-actress-girlfriend that had a split personality, schizophrenia, and was on a dosage of klonopin.
We had just left an "outing", for those of you that have no interest in this particular industry, it's basically a gathering of pretty faces that get together and act like fairies. Kind of like a "meet-and-greet". Before I go on I'll point out that
1. I'm considered the least apprehensive in the industry because of my hobbies, and my love for beer and pizza
2. I was born into this and getting paid to work out and have your picture taken with hotties that you could easily "smash" on later isn't a bad career choice.
3. Yes I get flac, but it's from jealous people that don't cope with the way people are born. I make up for the flac in martial skill. Enemies make good friends sometimes.
4. No i will not advertise my movie/photo productions on here, I'm not a douche bag and I don't need the money. However I will tell you I am doing a shoot/working with melody quan sometime soon after I heal from my recent accident that I look forward to, and if possible ill post a pic of what look like for arguments sake, if you recognize me. Good for you. But I'm not the type that exploits myself, i really feel i shouldn't be shouting out her name also. I come to this site for self defense methods because jealous boyfriends, psychos, and people do exist
5. I have no real aspirations to become a celebrity. However I love what I do.
Now that that's cleared up: I found out how looney she was through other co-workers/family members, we broke up on the account of honesty, also evidently I kicked royal ass at the outings to through pure charisma and personality.
ex: I basically said screw the fairies, and who is the top guy?
in this business they literally tell you "no-girlfriends", because it's all about reputation and who you know, also traveling a lot. She couldn't handle it and couldn't have timed it better, my family had flown in from out of town.
It had been three months since we dated, evidently she was off her meds, and doing other drugs, comes to my place with my family there. My mother unknowingly about the situation opens the door, she runs upstairs and tells me "look I just got fake breasts" loudly, I try to calm the situation down. My family was there after all.
long story short she wanted to have intercourse right there and then, she told me like this "I can either OD on drugs in your house, or you can **** me" my jaw dropped and of course thinking "oh ****....please god not this situatuon..." which option did you think I used? It wasn't satisfying in the least, because the passion wasn't there, about as close to "rape" coming from a chick as you could get. After that was done and she had left I reported her to the authorities.
Also owning a blackbelt/doing martial arts only makes things worse, part of me wishes I stopped at brown and or not do it at all.
She now resides in a mental facility/women's shelter. I visit her sometimes disregarding what previously happened and regarding that she helped me get to where I am today.
Also, another incident not quite as looney but a model friend of mine came over and spent the night after going clubbing and exposure events, I own a relatively big house and I'm somewhat successful in the real estate market, my brother had this same issue, once they certain people not so well off see condos, nice cars, lots of property they'll do what it takes.
I had asked her to leave the next day, kindly, I love women, I do a charity each year for battered house wives, and what not so what I'm about to tell you I am some what ashame of.
I was pretty well taught not to use any skills on anyone for any reason, not even life or death. Just call the cops. My dad being a criminal defense specialist trained my mind for that reason.
I'm downstairs asking her to leave, In my pajamas of course, no phone in site to call 911. She grabbed a wine glass, broke it some what and came running at me when I kept asking her to leave giving her a chance by not legally charging her with something. Now some of you may have attempted to be a superman and disarmed the person but in the business where your "looks" are your money you can't even risk the slightest cut or your career is over.
By an act of god I had remembered I had a can of mace/pepper spray in a hidden area in case of burglary or something similar, I sprayed her once when she ran at me with the broken piece of glass, not on her face, but her body and around her neck I didn't want to do that to someone, I've seen the effects of mace on a face. She basically ran out of the house, I don't know if any of you have ever been maced, but even the strong stuff from the smell will cause you to cry and vomit.
I kindly got her stuff and set it outside, told her if she kept pursuing I will call the cops and have her arrested on assault and battery. She got the message and left.
So my reaction to this is: no the man that called the cops on this particular female was being a gentleman, just like everyone should. Striking a female is lesser of a man than most on here think, regardless of the situation, nature and country Also when in doubt: use mace, pepper spray, or tazer, if a phone isn't reachable. They are more effective than most people think unless they are on drugs of course, and if you think they aren't, do it to yourself one day. And please post a thread.
I actually have a grudge against chick beaters from living in south. I used to sort out guys that did that in high school. I got a reputation for doing so, I was even going to become a cop one day for that very reason but life chose a different path. Taking down the entire source is more effective than doing it one at a time, in my experience. This was before i was scouted into the entertainment industry.
Don't constrain or touch a chick without their consent or I will find you. To the LEO on this site that don't agree, than do your jobs better. There are bigots everywhere. I personally don't have anything against cops. Just the system.
Ironically from making this post, I'll lose my face to save a girl, but I won't lose it so they can destroy it.
Here you go. I recently cut my hair to better my competition in the ring, and style change, movies, etc. it does get in the way, props to the guys that can manage it.
I hope my posting changes your views on "treating women". I consider them angels.
Originally Posted by Smackjack