I liked the article Lampa.
It has much truth to it.
But for me, I'm not cool because of judo, obviously I'm cool because I'm an Accountant, duh!
"So stop picturing yourself busting up three muggers, right now."
What if the 90 year old lady in your article suddenly pulled off a flying triangle on you in the waiting room? Then, when you're just about to lose consciousness, she buries those knitting needles in your eyeballs.
Then would you be cool?
I will never be cool, but it feels cool onstage. I'll settle for the delusion, if it's that or nothing.