you know for shits and giggles i read pretty much both of those websites in their entirety. I came across this in their "dojo safety rules":
10) Members will not attend any other martial arts activity without Senseiís consent so as to prevent negative influence.
Negative influence? Is that a fancy way of saying "we don't want your kids finding out that what we're teaching them is garbage and find out there are better and more effective martial arts out there taught by more competent people"?