I accepted, then declined based on advice.
Did you inform Paul of the declination and the reason? Also, what was the nature of this advice? Why would it preclude a friendly match with reasonable waivers?


I think you're an absolute waste of DNA,
Waaah waahhhh butthurt.


a person who should have been aborted
Is this what happened to you?


You're disapproval of me, validates me.
If you're going to type bloated gibberish, you could at least spell it correctly.

Paul, you are just a sad bitter -little- man. Truly pathetic. Cy I laugh at, you I just feel sorry for.

I'd still like to know who's advice you were getting. You haven't answered that question. How do they (did they) know me? In what context?

I get the feeling I was tried and convicted outside of the courts on this one.

Bob, I'm 5'4" at 175lbs and work out regularly (sorry I can't provide my Body Fat Index). Short, yes, that's genetic. But, I didn't let that keep me from training in martial arts, joining the service, or enjoying quite a few other things in life.

Being sad... that's a choice Bob, and I think your choice is clear. Don't confuse my conviction to a standard for bitterness. It's so common a defense for the unprepared.

Paula there pops in, with a lame "I couldnt get in so I made a new account" excuse, to dig up ancient history, that has already been dead horsed here years ago. Here dumb ass, on your site, which anyone with more than a single digit IQ would know to search for given the hints made.

Gee Paul. Gonna go bump the dead too? Go ahead, I know you want to. You live for little else.

But, do it without me. Just you, and your sock puppets and the cowards who'll all "come back".

I'll let you and Cy have a public love fest alone. I know he's still miffed I rejected him, but you two will be a better couple anyway.

LOL!

I tried to focus on events and posts that I was directly involved instead. Since I have been banned, they are 'ancient history' in some ways, but can you show how things have changed? Wait... nope. Matt Morton comes to mind.

Relevance of information, Bob. Posts cited back to 2004 in relation to current events (Matt Morton) demonstrate a trend...

Paul, did Bob inform you of his decision to decline the match, or attempt to negotiate terms with you to accommodate his concerns?

Paul, you and Cy and the kids have fun.

Paul, you and Cy and the kids have fun.
Oh, my. It's true, isn't it, Blob? You're a fight-ducking cowardly bitch.

Paul, please present links to prove your account. When you do, and I'm pretty sure you will, we can take it from there.

Paul, did Bob inform you of his decision to decline the match, or attempt to negotiate terms with you to accommodate his concerns?

Again, my comment is going to be based on recollections of a phone conversation so take it for what it's worth:

Bob ONLY informed me of his medical condition near the end of the aforementioned phone conversation that took place because I blocked caller ID and Bob picked up.

When I asked him directly why he even took up the offer of a sparring match, he said something along the lines of "Because I do it (spar, workout) anyway" [or there abouts]. Off of that comment, I offered to accommodate his medical concerns by changing sparring to a friendly work out. My main goal was to 'cross the line in the sand' that had formed by actually working out together. I made that very clear to him in the phone call.

Oh, my. It's true, isn't it, Blob? You're a fight-ducking cowardly bitch.

Paul, please present links to prove your account. When you do, and I'm pretty sure you will, we can take it from there.

I have an email out to the admin who ran the discussion board. I'm waiting for a reply.

If, for some reason, the links can not be provided, I will post here that as well so that whatever action has to be taken can be taken.

Oh, my. It's true, isn't it, Blob? You're a fight-ducking cowardly bitch.

Paul, please present links to prove your account. When you do, and I'm pretty sure you will, we can take it from there.
You're right Cy, as always. You, who symbolize all that Bullshido is, was, and ever will be, are absofuckinglutely right. I'm a fight-ducking cowardly bitch. I chickened out, pants damp from my own urine, because I was afraid that Paul Martin, a supposed black belt with years of experience on me, would own my fat sad sorry ass. I was so scared he would make my no belt ass look bad. I was so frightened that he would hurt me. I was absolutely terrified that he would make me cry. So I crawled away to hide in my own feces stained dress, hoping that the **** on my face would hide my tears of shame and disgrace that I was nothing more than a fat sorry *****. I was mortified that he would find I had a secret man crush on his studliness, and that I love the cock. Now, because I can never be a real man like him, or you Cy, I made it my lifes mission to run a series of websites, and invited all the sokes', no touch masters, and 6 day old grandmasters in to party. But they never came, because I'm even too lame for them! It's such a disgrace. If I had any honor I'd kill my self on a live web feed, but I'm too much a sorry sack of sad **** to even do that right. My only hope is that my big-mac packed heart will stop beating one night and my shame will finally end.


There. Full confession.

You're right Cy, as always. You, who symbolize all that Bullshido is, was, and ever will be, are absofuckinglutely right. I'm a fight-ducking cowardly bitch. I chickened out, pants damp from my own urine, because I was afraid that Paul Martin, a supposed black belt with years of experience on me, would own my fat sad sorry ass. I was so scared he would make my no belt ass look bad. I was so frightened that he would hurt me. I was absolutely terrified that he would make me cry. So I crawled away to hide in my own feces stained dress, hoping that the **** on my face would hide my tears of shame and disgrace that I was nothing more than a fat sorry *****. I was mortified that he would find I had a secret man crush on his studliness, and that I love the cock. Now, because I can never be a real man like him, or you Cy, I made it my lifes mission to run a series of websites, and invited all the sokes', no touch masters, and 6 day old grandmasters in to party. But they never came, because I'm even too lame for them! It's such a disgrace. If I had any honor I'd kill my self on a live web feed, but I'm too much a sorry sack of sad **** to even do that right. My only hope is that my big-mac packed heart will stop beating one night and my shame will finally end.


There. Full confession.

Wow I just wow. The way you flip between martyr, self righteous, and self deprecating is very weird.

Wow I just wow. The way you flip between martyr, self righteous, and self deprecating is very weird.

It's also interesting how freely the cursing comes out for someone who made such an issue about using professional language on his own board. More hypocrisy instead of living by his own rules.

"Integrity" means doing the right thing because it's right, not because you can get away with it.

Wow I just wow. The way you flip between martyr, self righteous, and self deprecating is very weird.
It's a talent.
The following statement is true. The proceeding statement is false.

Look, you seem a level headed guy, so I'll not bs you.
I'm amused by this all. I love the fact that Phrost gave us this award. I love the fact that some folks here are cool, and some aren't. I love the fact that you guys exist though I dislike some of your methods and don't care for some of your members antics.

Be honest here. Nothing I say is ever going to convince 99% of these people they are wrong. No matter what I say here, I'm already guilty, can't win. So, I'm not trying to win.

Paul and I have issues. I'd thought they were resolved years back, but I was wrong.
MartialTalk has made some mistakes yes. We continually try to improve.
Neither I nor my staff are any more fans of frauds than the folks here.
WE meaning MartialTalk has repeatedly, over the last 9 years, said we are willing to work with any cooperative site. I've asked publicly and privately here.
We will never be Bullshido, and we never want to be. You fill your niche, we fill ours, and we all have our opinions on just what those niches are.

As to my banter with Cy, hey in all honesty I've got no clue how serious he is. I'm just playing along, having some fun. If the opportunity presented itself, I'd sit with him, Paul, you, Phrost, or most anyone here and share a beverage of choice and talk. No, I'm not going to get on any floor and spar, roll, compete, or test. I'm still under medical advisement not to, and I have nothing to prove to anyone.

That's a no BS, truth. People can read it as they wish. I really don't care.
But, it's the truth.

My offer to cooperate is public here and on MartialTalk. People who want to try the site out for themselves are welcome to do so. Some don't like us. That's fine. Neither MartialTalk nor Bullshido is for everyone. But our door is open, should anyone care to contribute and share information. It's not open to fly-by interrogation, pile ons, or trolling.

My offer to cooperate is public here and on MartialTalk. People who want to try the site out for themselves are welcome to do so. Some don't like us. That's fine. Neither MartialTalk nor Bullshido is for everyone. But our door is open, should anyone care to contribute and share information. It's not open to fly-by interrogation, pile ons, or trolling.

I agree but, it is how you went about it IMO. My full response which also answers this post is in the other thread.

Please direct all comments to the PaulM account to Loki09789. I guess I'm back on this one now. See, I took my whipping no problem.

Bob, you've come right out and told a mutual friend with whom you had regular coffee meetings that you would not attend if I was there, so don't give me any line about willingness to meet if the opportunity provided itself.

The opportunity came when we finished our phone conversation (the one where you couldn't tell me that you thought I was dishonorable) with the promise to follow up with a time to get together 'off the matt' to discuss things in person. You never did.

Dodging me while you leave me with a lie and yourself with an assumption isn't the same as resolved.

Please direct all comments to the PaulM account to Loki09789. I guess I'm back on this one now. See, I took my whipping no problem.

Bob, you've come right out and told a mutual friend with whom you had regular coffee meetings that you would not attend if I was there, so don't give me any line about willingness to meet if the opportunity provided itself.

The opportunity came when we finished our phone conversation (the one where you couldn't tell me that you thought I was dishonorable) with the promise to follow up with a time to get together 'off the matt' to discuss things in person. You never did.

Dodging me while you leave me with a lie and yourself with an assumption isn't the same as resolved.
Paul, in the time since that discussion, I also briefly ran the local martial arts meet up, which you were a member of last I knew. There were numerous coffee meets with that, that you never attended but I did as did several of our mutual friends. I was under the impression that past issues were just that, past. My apologies on my misunderstanding.

That invitation to drink and talk Paul, is still available.

Paul, in the time since that discussion, I also briefly ran the local martial arts meet up, which you were a member of last I knew. There were numerous coffee meets with that, that you never attended but I did as did several of our mutual friends. I was under the impression that past issues were just that, past. My apologies on my misunderstanding.

That invitation to drink and talk Paul, is still available.

Yup, I did not make any of those meetings. Had nothing to do with you.

The conditions under which you left those issues trumps your misunderstanding. Burying them under lies isn't any sign of quality communication.

Of course the offer still stands - you didnt' follow up with any details. Are you trying to now?